Okkay now this is time when an Mid-Twenties Crisis Strike!
which i like to call you people : Quarteries!
I'm not gonna stretch my nose anymore. It is the Mid-Twenties gawdamn Crisis!
Shut up Plato! |
WHY Middle-Twenties?
1. Middle-Twenties (for most people) is a No Play-play time anymore (except you are a prince/princess in your family's golden throne, sitting there eating ice cream while your bro/sis cover your lazy ass)
2. When you step/about to step into middle-twenties club, get ready to be faced with high expectation from parents and judgement from others about getting your JOB! (luckily i slip thru this one)
3. Middle-Twenties is when your future responsibility and shit will be thrown at your face,and you need to prepare those faces from the middle-twenties (shitty metaphor but you got the cue right?)
WHY Crisis?
1. Middle-Twenties is the time when you need to DECIDE!
Wether you keep your ass sitting inside the cubicle and sheltering under your comfort zone in the company,
OR!, you move on from that comfort zone to go to a better comfort zone! or built a new comfort zone yourself.
In this case, i've been watching and hearing things from my girlfriend about how sucks her job in the office...mostly it's not about the salary, it's the productivity, grow, and experience that we, the quateries buddies need to step into the real cruel world.
And some are struggling with the politic in the office (i hate it the most), in this case, either you be the lion to fight those bitches away, or be a crab and move from your shitty coral to a new safer coral rocks (luckily i have not face this yet).
And of course the hardest part is choosing the last options to built a new comfort zone, which is your own business...this is the most complicated things ever, and i'm yet to know about this kind of things (i'll probably learn it first then we'll talk more).
2. Middle-Twenties is the time to take relationship to the next level!
When you reach 23-30 years old, you won't see or think relationship the same way again.
for me, i've been walked in relationship with my girlfriend for 3 and a half years. For most people, we can't hold it any longer than 2 years, and we need to think about money, house, commitment , built a family and lot of stuffs that most the early quarteries are afraid to think of.
For most quarteries this means moving to some places, which is new friends, new partner. If you lucky enough to have a great colleague that's fine, but what if they turn out to be your enemy. And the most important is that, this is the time to find your real friends. from my experience, even old pals could be the cruelest pal ever. For me this is the Trust Issue crisis, if you have a really good besties and you trust them and they do too, better keep them forever. All i can say is watch out for those guy who haven't find.
Okay! that's all for now, recalling my quater life pain is quite tiring, however this would be a reminder for me not to give up in crisis time, knowing your problem is the best way to overcome it.
SO are you ready for Quarterie Crisis ?